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[07 May 2012|03:29pm]

I really wanted to love The Magicians, because I saw Lev Grossman speak at the Center for Fiction and I thought he was way cool. Plus it came highly recommended. Unfortunately my basic take on it was, Harry Potter as written by Jonathan Franzen.


The main character was everything that makes me avoid mainstream fiction like the plague: soaking in privilege yet never happy; self-preoccupied to the point of hardly seeing anyone else, yet lacking in self awareness; screwing up what few real relationships he has; largely passive and reactive, and not taking responsibility for the things he does do.  The fact that he was surrounded by other, more appealing people whose stories I only got to see glimpses of just made it worse. Cannot decide if I am willing to try the sequel.

On the other hand, I adored Patricia Wrede’s The Thirteenth Child and highly recommend it.


As, among other things, a counterpoint to OSC’s Alvin Maker. The only thing that bugged me a little is that this is an alternative US frontier with no mention of Native Americans whatsoever. Of course, given the “alternative”, it’s entirely possible that in this world there never were any, but never finding a way to slip that detail in somewhere still feels a little too much like erasure to me.

I also read the Hunger Games books. I really liked them.


I did feel that Gale’s character was more told than shown, which made the resolution of the love triangle not much of a surprise. As a poly person, I was a little annoyed, though not surprised, to find that the idea of not having to choose occurred to no one. I was also bothered that there don’t seem to be any gay people in Panem. Katniss’ lack of much of any sexual feelings of her own did not ring very true to me – of course, I’ve not been in anything like that situation, so I can hardly say, but I think history suggests that neither hunger nor war prevent most teenagers from wanting sex, even if they don’t have it.

I found Katniss’ explanation of her prep team – the idea that people from the capital have no empathy or moral horror because they are so sheltered -- kind of unrealistic too. After all they must still suffer and die from other things. I know studies have shown that rich people have less empathy, but less is not none, and while the people in the capital are certainly rich compared to District 12 they are not the kind of super-rich that can control everything about their own existence and be surrounded by syncophants. Then again, that’s Katniss’ perspective, not necessarily the truth, and Cinna suggests things are more complicated.

I liked the last book slightly less than the other two – Katniss is more reactive and less active in it, and while it makes sense, it is less satisfying. And I found her comment about her being a child that no one cared about hurting did not ring true – she’s 17, and while that’s a child in the sense that she’s still eligible for the Hunger Games and not allowed to go down into the mines, it really doesn’t strike me that Katniss has seen herself as a child in a long time, nor has she functioned as one in the eyes of others. Nor do the people of District 13, who she is talking about, consider 17 year olds children in general, since they’ve already joined the army. It seemed like an interjection from planet 21st Century North America.

But all of those are minor quibbles to an extremely compelling story. I particularly liked that Collins was not afraid to make Katniss make some unlikeable choices and have some selfish thoughts. She was still, to me, a very sympathetic character, but also a realistic one, not one where the deck is stacked so a she never has to make a hard call. And I loved the way the cameras, and her awareness of them, infiltrated her awareness and even made it hard to figure out what her own feelings would be if they weren’t there. It’s a very nuanced worldview that I think a lot of adults would not realize a teenager could maintain, as well as a very postmodern dilemma. I kind of want to write a paper on The Truman Show, The Hunger Games, and as many other Panopticon surveillance SF conceits as I can think of, and how they influence character and relationship  development.
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[24 Apr 2012|10:28pm]
[ mood | curious ]

So dinner and pie out with a friend turned into worldbuilding a new shared project, like you do. And now we need help.

Does anyone here understand linguistic drift? If you stuck a bunch of people who all spoke different languages on the same slow boat and expected them to establish a colony at the other end, what would happen? A bunch of language enclaves? A single lingua franca based on the most populous language, or some other criteria? A new hybrid? A multilingual population?

How much lack of communication is necessary for two populations that originally spoke the same language to plausibly drift apart? 

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[04 Apr 2012|12:55pm]

I want to start a zoo of only miniature animals. I could call it Minimalism.

I would have these guys:

http://www.zooborns.com/zooborns/2012/04/worlds-tiniest-antelope-born-in-tampa.html

http://www.amha.org/

http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/slideshow/prince-harry-hippo-16023822

http://www.miniaturebull.com/

http://www.bulldog-french.com/cheviot.htm

http://www.teacuppigsforsale.com/

http://www.npga-pygmy.com/

http://www.zooborns.com/zooborns/2009/10/columbia-basin-pygmy-rabbits-oregon-zoo-breeding-baby-bunnies.html

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[15 Feb 2012|11:05am]
I'm not really here (don't have my repaired lap top back yet and don't have time to read LJ from work) but... The title of this blog post kept sounding like a poem to me, so finally I wrote it:

We will measure our loss

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Following Seanan (and Josh) like the proverbial sheep [19 Jan 2012|09:54am]
[ mood | silly ]

My own crack at filking Cotton Mill Girls

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Song lyrics, for no particular reason [17 Jan 2012|09:40pm]

They call her Penny Candy )
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Yuletide recs [02 Jan 2012|07:50pm]
A Chord of Roses, fanfic for Guy Kay's A Song for Arbonne. Spot on elegiac, bittersweet tone to the point that I'd have believed it was a deleted scene; perfectly captures GGK's method of being sexy and a little bit kinky but not at all explicit; much more about the emotion of wanting than the mechanics of having. Also worth reading for the poly among us for its sensitive and non-dismissive handling of the concept of multiple loves.

Domestic Affairs, fanfic for Lois McMasters Bujold's Vorkosiganverse. Also something that could slip seamlessly into a book, plus, like Busman's Honeymoon, notable for being in that underwritten genre, the newly married couple learning how to do it right together. (I do not count arranged marriage romance plots in this; I'm talking about people who have already found their happy ending but it didn't come with a manual.)

Harmless. Fanfic for Pratchett's Discworld, but most entertaining for readers of Azimov's robot stories.





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Writer's Block: Career paths [21 Dec 2011|12:41pm]

If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?

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Science fiction and fantasy editor.

Sometimes I think that means books. Sometimes I think it means a  magazine. Sometimes I think it means book reviews. Sometimes I think I don't know or care whether it means any of those or something I haven't even thought of, because any job so describable would be self-evidently awesome.

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Today in depressing U.S. news [15 Dec 2011|12:09pm]
[ mood | gloomy ]

I know you've seen it everywhere, but I can't not post it: Obama to sign indefinite detention into law

And in case that's not enough for you, there's: Nearly 1 in 5 women say they've been sexually assaulted
I recommend reading -- or skipping -- to the last third, where the more surprising facts are, at least to me.

And for the hat trick, 1 in 2 Americans are now poor or low income
That's extra depressing when you realize how stringent the gov't definitions of poor and low income are. Add in all the people you know who wouldn't qualify but are struggling financially, and it gets pretty scary.

One ray of light:  Wage protection planned for home care workers

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and, just for a change, more science [15 Dec 2011|10:23am]
World's smallest steam engine is just three thousandths of a millimetre long

World's first programmable quantum photonic chip

Parts Of Mars May Be Habitable For Earth-Based Life

Did walking evolve underwater? 'Walking fish' suggests that it did.

Aspirin's Benefits Before Heart Surgery

Coffee May Help Cut Cancer Risk in Women

Trial Vaccine for Norovirus Shows Promise

Two Drugs Appear to Delay Progression of Breast Cancer

Cancer Vaccine Significantly Reduces Tumor Size

Why Working Mothers Are Happier and Healthier Than Stay-at-Home Moms

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Writer's Block: B.Y.O.B. Holidays [13 Dec 2011|03:28pm]

What is on your holiday wish list this year?

One random answer will win a $50 Amazon gift card. [Details here]

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Because I know you were waiting with bated breath... [13 Dec 2011|09:03am]
In conclusion, nobody cares if I dye my hair but me, but if I do, copper is the clear winner. (or Weird Colors, but that has potential work downsides that I don't care enough to deal with.)

How did people ever decide these things before LiveJournal?

Edited to correct my spelling at autopope's strenuous suggestion. :)
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[12 Dec 2011|02:43pm]
Fairly sure I just found my second grey hair. Or possibly first, or third. Which leads to the following earthshaking question:

Should I dye my hair and if so, what color?

(Un)naturally, there must be a poll. Poll #1802566 She Dyed with Her Boots On
Open to: Friends, detailed results viewable to: Friends, participants: 28

Should I cover my grey?

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Yes, now
2 (6.1%)
Yes, but not till you have more of it
3 (9.1%)
Meh, whatever you feel most comfy with
19 (57.6%)
No, I dislike dyed hair
0 (0.0%)
No, I don't mind dying for fun, but I don't like it for grey-reduction reasons
9 (27.3%)
Depends on something else, which I will explain in comments
0 (0.0%)

If I cover my grey, what color should I cover it with

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As close to my natural brown as can be achieved
9 (21.4%)
Copper (one of my natural highlight colors)
13 (31.0%)
Blonde (one of my natural highlight colors)
3 (7.1%)
Auburn (not actually one of my natural highlight colors, but plausible
4 (9.5%)
Something obviously not natural (purple, green, black)
13 (31.0%)
Something else which I will suggest in comments
0 (0.0%)

For hair dye, I recommend:

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Henna or other natural preparation
6 (26.1%)
Manic Panic or other commercial/chemical preparation
7 (30.4%)
Professional or nothing
6 (26.1%)
Something else which I will explain in comments
4 (17.4%)

Specifically, this is my favorite brand/shade/cheap NYC hairdresser:

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Science links. Some pretty old, but still cool. [11 Dec 2011|05:02pm]

Study shows lab rats would rather free a friend than eat chocolate

people going through loneliness are at greater risk for certain cancers.

Researchers Create A Mind-Controlled Super Limb

High school senior kills cancer with nanotech, still can't legally drink

Giant Waterworld Confirmed Around Naked Eye Star

Solar System May Have Lost Fifth Giant Planet

Liquid armour 'can stop bullets'
With Magnetic Nanoparticles, Scientists Remotely Control Neurons and Animal Behavior
Chronic fatigue syndrome eased by cancer drug

Microwave-Powered Rocket Ascends without Fuel
Sodium plays key role in tissue regeneration
Developers Say Lunar Elevator Could be Built Within a Decade

The Importance of Mind-Wandering

How to spot psychopaths: Speech patterns give them away

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new song lyrics [17 Nov 2011|10:42am]
I seem to be very into taking a bunch of fairytales with a theme in common and smushing them together lately. Today is fabric.

The Spinster’s Tale
 
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[16 Nov 2011|09:00pm]
So I went to a Heather Dale house concert last night. It was awesome in many ways, and one of them was that she mentioned that she likes having her songs used in fanvids. The song she mentioned this in the intro to was Mordred's Lullaby, and while understandably a lot of people have used it for Merlin fandom among others, I think it would make an AWESOME ATS vid about Connor, with Holtz in the role of Morgan. (Though this weirds my inner Spike out a little since he's always thought that *he* was Mordred to Angel's Arthur.)

Unfortunately, I cannot vid.

So, my first question: does anyone feel called to make this for me? I will offer fic or poetry in exchange.

Second, broader, question: would it be weird for someone who doesn't vid themselves to suggest a multifandom Heather Dale fanvid challenge? Because I think that would be way cool.
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Con or Bust now taking requests for Jan.-March cons [16 Nov 2011|04:54pm]
Originally posted by [info]kate_nepveu at Con or Bust now taking requests for Jan.-March cons
Con or Bust helps fans of color/non-white fans attend SFF cons. From now through November 25, it is accepting requests for assistance for cons that begin in January, February, and March 2012.

You can find a partial list of upcoming cons at Locus. In addition, the following cons have supported Con or Bust through donations:
  • Arisia, Boston, MA, January 13-16: four memberships and one hotel room

  • (ETA Nov 16): AnachroCon, Atlanta, GA, February 24-26: two memberships

  • Lunacon, Rye Brook, NY, March 16-18: two memberships

  • FOGcon, Walnut Creek, CA, March 30-April 1: two memberships
In addition, an individual has donated a membership to Boskone, Boston, MA, February 17-19.

Read this post for instructions on how to request assistance. Donate con memberships by e-mailing knepveu@steelypips.org. Donate money with a PayPal account or credit card with this button:



Or learn more about Con or Bust generally.

Please spread the word!

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Writer's Block: Check, please! [14 Nov 2011|08:24am]
I strongly prefer Dutch treat.

I don't mind people offering to pay, especially if they're the one who proposed the date, but I really get uncomfy when they insist... it makes me feel indebted, which I don't like, especially when I don't even have any concrete sense of what my side of the transaction is and therefore have no idea if I'm willing to take on the obligation or when I've met it. It's nothing as crude as "put out" but it's not quite nothing, either.

It also makes me reluctant to order what I really want (if I suspect it might happen) or feel guilty for doing so (if they surprise me with it after the fact) for price reasons, which is also uncomfortable.

It also makes me reluctant to agree to any more dates if I'm not absolutely sure that I'll be romantically/sexually interested in them, since I am potentially wasting their money. (And their time, but I'm wasting my own time at the same rate.)

It also makes me worry about what this says about their gender expectations... I am not a traditionally feminine woman; a guy who insists on fulfilling the traditionally masculine role is probably going to be a bad match for me in both directions... we're going to clash when I want to do for myself/be independent, and we're going to clash again when I fail to live up to the female side of the bargain.

(If it wasn't for gendered reasons, it might feel different, but in my 22 years of dating it's never NOT been a guy explicitly saying he feels he should pay because he's the guy.)

As I get to know the person better and it feels more like a relationship I do loosen up on this a little ... there can be more "you get this one I'll get the next one" once you're sure there's going to BE a next one, and concepts like "I treat you for a special occasion" or "I'll pay more because I have more disposable income than you" start to come into play.

That's not to say I've never let a guy pay. I have... three times. Because you get to a point where you're pretty much have to arm wrestle them for it, and it's undignified. But it's not a plus in my book.


Who pays on a first date?

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Science links [10 Nov 2011|06:48pm]

World's tiniest electric vehicle, a molecular car, is rolled out

Autistic Kids May Have More Cells in Some Brain Areas

Mystery of MAGNETIC ROCKS FOUND ON MOON cracked

Study questions benefits of reducing sodium in diet

First man ‘functionally cured’ of HIV

Scientist creates thermal 'invisibility cloak'

Killer gas could relieve stress in low doses: study

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Fanfic question, spoilers for Firefly and Serenity [06 Nov 2011|05:01pm]
[ mood | curious ]

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